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The end of a marriage or legal partnership is never easy to navigate. There are countless challenges to deal with, from figuring out how to share assets and debt, to dealing with parenting time negotiations, maintenance orders, and more. One issue that can make the process more complex, however, is being unable to choose the right process, and expert to help you through the journey.
Divorce mediation, for instance, is a popular alternative to the traditional litigation process for many Jefferson County residents. It can help to reduce the stressful experiences that you need to manage, help partners to maintain amicable relationships, and even be more cost-effective.
However, the key to getting the best “mediation” experience, is being able to choose the mediator you want to work with. For Jefferson County residents, this hasn’t always been easy, as traditional mediation processes often took place on a face-to-face basis, prompting couples to choose mediators close to home, regardless of their suitability.
Now, however, family attorneys and divorce mediators, like Darren M. Shapiro, can offer virtual mediation sessions to couples across New York and Long Island. This means you have more options to choose from for your mediation services than ever before.
Here’s why you may choose to work with Mr. Shapiro as your virtual divorce mediator.
Based on the Northern border of New York, Jefferson County is a location with deep historical and cultural significance. Named after the third president of the United States, Thomas Jefferson, this patriotic county is home to various iconic sites, from Fort Drum, to Boldt Castle.
More than 55% of the population of Jefferson County (listed as over 116,000 people in the 2020 census) is made up of married couples living together. For those couples, when a relationship comes to an end, working with a divorce mediator may be an excellent way to streamline the divorce process, and keep stress to a minimum.
Unfortunately, while Mr. Shapiro has visited visited upstate New York a lot over the years, he hasn’t always had the option to offer mediation sessions to local residents. Most traditional mediation sessions required regular face-to-face interactions, and many couples wouldn’t have been able to travel the long distance to Mr. Shapiro’s office in Jericho, Nassau County for each session.
This meant that many couples were left to choose a divorce mediator based not on their skills, nature, or experience, but on their proximity to their homes. The rise of virtual mediation solutions, however, which allow Mr. Shapiro to take advantage of tools like Zoom for virtual conferences, and online systems for e-filing documents, has changed this landscape.
Today, Mr Shapiro can offer Jefferson County residents easy access to mediation services, without the need for travel, giving them complete freedom to choose the mediator that’s right for them.
All mediators bring something unique to their role, thanks to their diverse backgrounds and experiences. Mr. Shapiro offers clients the advantage of working with an experienced attorney, first admitted to the New York State Bar in 1999.
While all divorce mediators should have a basic knowledge of family law, few bring the hands-on experience and background Mr. Shapiro offers to their service. For more than 20 years, Mr. Shapiro has worked with countless couples and clients, on a huge range of cases. He’s dealt with proceedings relating to orders of protection, equitable distribution, custody claims and more.
This has given him a first-hand understanding of the unique challenges that couples can face as they move through the divorce process, as well an insight into how court decisions are made. Throughout mediation sessions, Mr. Shapiro uses this knowledge to help guide his clients towards successful resolutions, minimize disruptions in proceedings, and answer questions about common concerns.
He offers clients a behind-the-scenes look at the divorce journey in New York, using his own background as a crucial resource for various mediation tactics. Over the years, Mr. Shapiro has even developed his skills in “evaluative mediation techniques” based on his legal experience.
This means he can assess the decisions that couples are making, and help them to evaluate them based on insights into the inner-workings of the courts.
For Mr. Shapiro, the decision to offer mediation services alongside his services as a divorce attorney came naturally. After he discovered his affinity for family law working with the Assigned Panel of Suffolk County, Mr. Shapiro quickly launched his own family law practice, initially serving clients throughout Suffolk and Jericho County.
Since then, he has been searching for innovative ways to improve the support he can offer to clients. After he identified the value of mediation for his clients, and the impact his experience as a family law attorney had on the success of sessions, he continued to develop his skills.
While offering mediation services to local residents, Mr. Shapiro developed his talents in various strategies. For instance, he uses facilitative mediation techniques to help encourage valuable conversations, and unlock insights with open-ended questioning. He also regularly relies on interest-based negotiation techniques, ensuring every client has a chance to identify their priorities, and work together to achieve a mutually-beneficial resolution.
Now that Mr. Shapiro can offer virtual mediation services to clients across Long Island and New York, he can bring these techniques and skills to couples in Jefferson County. This ensures any couple, regardless of their distance or location, can access the same expertise, friendly support, and objective guidance that Mr. Shapiro has to offer.
Mr. Shapiro has regularly recommended divorce mediation as an option to many couples in the past, based on their specific circumstances and needs. Although he knows that mediation isn’t the right option for everyone, he also believes every couple should be able to consider this path (when applicable), and choose the mediator that’s right for him.
With the ability to offer virtual mediation sessions to residents throughout New York, Mr. Shapiro can give Jefferson County residents the freedom to choose him as their divorce mediator, without them having to deal with complex and expensive travel requirements.
If you believe that divorce mediation is the right path for you, and you want to learn more about working with Mr. Shapiro as your virtual mediator, contact his office today. You can get in touch via the contact form on this website, or over the phone to arrange an initial consultation for you and your partner, and ask any questions you might have.